I was watching Dr. Phil probably an hour ago and I was just shocked as I witnessed the things going on in the show. Basically, the argument was between a soon to be bride and her hopefully accepted although would be technically and of course officially mother-in-law. The dilemma was about the girl banning her betrothed's mother from their wedding. Although the girl was pretty hot, I would stand for her mother-in-law's side. As how I see the case, the root of all of these fall-outs is resentment or misapprehension. They were both wrong for verbally fighting back and forth through e-mails and text messages. The mother was just a bit pushy of her role, arranging the wedding at first and stuff like that until they enganged into a small quarrel. I understand how the girl would really get pissed off, but verbally abusing someone is like taking away his/her dignity. My dear, when it's your time to be the mother-in-law you will surely be feeling guilty. Moving on, the mother had every right to answer back. After Dr. Phil read out some of the quoted statements both parties have thrown out to each other, the more settled person (the mother of course) reacted with words that were noticeably reasonable and with more composure as she explained why her grudge blew out as worse intentions (as words) over her son's fiance. She stood up for what she said for she knew it was the truth. I got excited when I saw the girl trembling inside because of guilt.

In my perspective, bitch, you should've been a bit more understanding and less aggressive. You started the fight and even if the dilemma has not claimed a winning conclusion YET, I see it as your loss. With all due respect, your boyfriend's mom has every right to continue her role. It does not change anything but it's only a transition of her role as a mom. You have made your boyfriend hate his own mom, the one who has RAISED him.

Your devastation backfired as it became the cause of your shame. I may be a bit bias conveying my point of view. You won't get the chance to read this anyway. I just want this to be made known.

Got A Life Then
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